Rehab-International.org: Alcoholism Defined

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The day was unfortunate, stretched across too long hours. You gave yourself to the demands of a career, accepted the burdens of office politics. You excelled at all efforts but the result now is exhaustion. And you wish only to enjoy the quiet, the taste you know so well. A beverage is chosen, finished quickly. The process is never a slow one. You have no use for caution, no seconds to spare. You want only to forget your life; and so you drink again and again. The pattern repeats throughout the night and leaves you broken for the morning.

Alcoholism is among the most familiar of substances abused by the masses (even as many would think this impossible. They deem all brews instead worthy of their time). Too easily does it become an indulgence, attempted often and rarely controlled. The nature of this problem is experienced therefore by many.

Defined simply: this is a disorder of both mind and body. It’s a dependence upon any form of alcohol, with all sips turned into excesses. A tolerance is quickly established, due to the amounts being consumed, and soon an individual will have to drink more and more to receive even minimal effects. This is a disease – despite its origins in poor choices and a lack of control – and can cause many consequences, such as: sexual dysfunction, suicidal thoughts, liver corruption, heart damage and dementia.

It’s the requirement of alcohol to sustain energy or interest throughout the day; and this makes it all too common.

It is also, however, all too curable.

Treatment is available for this disorder. Institutions like Rehab-International.org seek to educate individuals about alcoholism and how it can be countered. Special programs can be joined to find support and information. And the simple act of refusing to drink can leave a person free from illness.

It’s a choice. It’s a lifestyle change.

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Ground Rules for Dealing with an Addict

Drug addiction is one of the hardest things in the world to overcome. Millions and millions of dollars every single day is poured into outreach programs and research on how to help people combat this terrible disease of addiction. If someone you know and love is dealing with drug addiction it’s quite possible that you are having to deal with it too. This is not just their problem. This problem affects everyone.

So the question is how do you handle it? It’s not easy to practice tough love, but it’s also not easy to practice a nurturing behavior as you watch someone you care about destroy their lives. Making some simple rules for yourself can help you deal with the addict in your life.

The first thing you have to do is set ground rules, not only for yourself but for the addict themselves. The number one rule is not to enable. This makes you just as guilty as they are. So when an addict asks for money you must tell them no. It doesn’t matter what they tell you or how little they may be asking for. You must assume they are spending that money on drugs and firmly tell them you will not be giving them any money. If they claim they need money for a flat tire, explain to them you would be happy to help them by paying the tire shop in person or over the phone but there will be no transferring of money between the addict.

If an addict wants to enter your home you must make the simple rule that the addict cannot be clearly on drugs and cannot bring drugs into your home. You should feel very right in asking them to empty their pockets, backpack, or purse if you have to. Having drugs in your home is not only unacceptable to you but is something you could get in real trouble for.
Understand these rules may be met with some resistance by the addict. This may even strain your relationship, but you do not want to be an enabler to them.

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